Scripture on dating and marriage
Of these three relationships, the Scriptures only speak of romantic attraction and desire being expressed in marriage.Song of Songs gives a beautiful picture of the feelings and expression of romantic desire and attraction.When a Christian marries he or she is making a commitment to fulfill the responsibility God ordains for the husband or wife to fulfill.He or she is making a commitment to have care and concern for the spiritual, emotional, physical, and mental welfare of his or her marriage partner.Also, in our culture, through "dating" people will often find a life partner and marry.How men and women view a "date" and "dating" can have a profound effect on their future. But for most, the issue of dating involves "romantic attraction and desire." Therefore "dating" must be approached by what the Scripture says regarding romantic desire and marriage, the only relationship in which romantic desire is to be fully expressed.
It involves coming together into a permanent bond of unity.However, the Bible does describe three kinds of relationships with the opposite sex and gives certain characteristics of each relationship (there are others such as parent/child and sibling, but they don't clarify the issues of dating).One kind of relationship the Bible describes is friendship.Song of Songs -11 says "How delightful is your love my sister, my bride!How much more pleasing is your love than wine, and the fragrance of your perfume than any spice." Only in marriage may a man and woman enjoy expressing their romantic and sexual desires toward each other.